LISTENING

In this world all the people are living with difficulties, may be that is very small or may be very complicated. But we have to live either solving our problems or learn to adjust with it. Whenever we meet our friends or people we like to talk, most of the time we share how hard our time is going or how we overcome any problem or want some suggestion. We may not get any but as we poured ourselves and empty our mind and heart we feel much lighter. Someone is listening you, just listening.

Listening doesn't solve any problem but recharge the energy of the person who is opening their heart before you. Be a faithful listener because when a person shares their problem they believe you so much that they are shearing their weakness , tears with you. Listening  is a great virtue. It is a great help and console to a suffering .

If you are suffering and no one is there to listen you, just close your eyes and address your creator HE is always there to listen you. We people can just listen to the problem, but when someone opens his\her heart with tears before the almighty He not only just listen He will make a way for them.

HELP.....You are lucky if you got the chance to help

Life is a journey,where the path is always not easy. We have to struggle , fall on our knees , and try to recover again. In the way we need help, everybody needs help. We get help from our parents siblings neighbors  relatives friends sometimes from unknown person. Sometimes we get the chance to help someone. The help may be by cash or kindness or some advise or just listening.

 We who believe in God in our trouble period never forget to pray for help from him. Does God himself ever came to help us? no, He loves us . He is always listening to our prayer. In the time of  our downfall we get someone in our side helping us in may be any form. Who is this 'someone' . They can be very known person or some stranger or someone from whom we never expect any help. Who is sending them at the very place at the very time to help you, The Almighty.

 Now when you get a chance to help somebody it is very sure you are there to help that 'somebody' just because The God has send you there. So think how much lucky  you are when you are helping someone. You are the reply of the prayer of a needy person. God is using you to as His  answer to the prayer.

 Here is a question what shall we get if we help . Some may think helping is just waste of money , or time or energy. Some other says the person we help forget us as they come out of the trouble. They forget our help. Or in the time of  your need they may hardly seem to know you. So why should you help?

 If you have the chance to help someone you will surely know if your help works you will feel an eternal satisfaction. That is priceless. Over all you are working as God wish you to do. So HE will reward you. You yourself will realize, just follow your life graph. It may be not always materialistic... it may be phycological.

Sometime our help does't work. May be the person  we want to help don't want us as a rescuer . Or we tried a lot but your help can't solve their problem.. we feel very disappointed but don't be sad , it is just because we are not always enough lucky. We can pray for them, that will make a difference. Whatever may be the ultimate stay beside them.

Never feel guilty for your kindness. Sometimes the person you help may hurt you, may not support you in your need, or may forget all you have done for them. You may feel upset you may feel the kindness you show for them was waste. Positive activities are never get wasted. The good you do will come back to you as blessings. What they do signifies their character. You are not like them. so never regret helping anybody.

It is ok to CRY

Crying or shedding tears is a normal process of our body. When any incident shake us emotionally the tears come out of our eyes.
  When we lose our near ones  the emotional crisis is so heavy we feel like some huge stone is on our heart. The sorrow has stucked in our throat.. the stone must be removed and the tears can do that.
The screaming, the loud crying will help. Let the tears roll down your cheeks and wash away all your sorrows.
     When we go through break ups, or failure in life....we wet our pillow. Or cry alone on the terrace. It is the sign of the end of a bad chapter of our life and preparing ourselves for a new beginning.
     The tears of happiness sparkle like pearl in the corner of our eyes. Crying in anger is better then breaking someone's head.
   But in our society crying  is signified as a symbol of weakness. So our boys are not allowed to cry. From the childhood they are told ,boys do not cry. Science said with tears stress toxins are released....it make us fresh and light. So why should we make our boys life heavier forcing them to lock all the emotions in the heart. Why can't we say our boys it is ok to cry.

Humbleness

 We are creations of God. We are strong enough to deal with any challenges we face in our life. Humbleness is a great strength that solve many problems in our life. But present days people think being humble is a weakness. But in practical life we can realize it's necessity. Now a days people lose temper in seconds. But if we can keep ourselves cool with a smile then you can see gradually the situation is coming under control. It's not easy. A person is shouting on you and you have to consider his/her anger and continue the conversation in a low humble voice. But believe me this is the only solution. When he/she will not get the same loud reaction from you his/her voice will come down. May be he/she will not show but will feel ashamed by his/her behavior. That will make your job easy.
It's my personal experience. Try it. Practice humbleness. It will make a you happier person and life more easy. The great people who contributed their life in welfare of mankind they leaded a very humble life.